You know the drill: Show up at the fam’s house for Thanksgiving, and they start spewing the offensive comments faster than you can say “pass the gravy.” Those remarks—which range from “When you gonna get a boyfriend?” to “Is that your third plate of food?”—usually get swept under the table like that nasty-ass cornbread your aunt made.

But that shit is not going to fly this year. Enter the #ThanksgivingClapBack hashtag, which is filled with more shade that you can possibly throw at your family in a lifetime. Enjoy, and get those fire clap backs in your insult arsenal for tomorrow.